I wish i had kept a list of all the amazing and ‘”amusing”things our alex has said eversince she discovered that talking and reasoning are one of her best qualities:). I’m sure i would have been able to write a lot, compiled it and even made it into a book. But since i have been preoccupied with too much”mommy”stuff, i simply stored these precious gems in my memory and heart and promised myself that one quiet day, i would have them in black and white.
And now that i have one of those rare times to just sit back, relax and digest my thoughts..i’ll try to remember every funny and “logical”thing our alex has come up with.
:)Eversince i left my career as a news reporter, i have been spending my days and nights at the beck and call of our one and only daughter. One night, after an exhaustingly happy schoolday,i was ready to finally lie on bed and read a newly acquired book when alex”asked”me to get one of her toys which she left downstairs. This is no big deal if you have not been going up and down the stairs at least 50 times in a day and so i said, “Baby naman, kaka-akyat ko lang eh, mommy’s tired na”.
After 2 days, as we were getting ready to leave for an event, i asked alex who just came down from upstairs to please get my cellphone which i left in our bedroom. I didnt have the nerve to get mad at her innocent response and im sure you would understand why. “mommy kaka-baba ko lang eh, im tired na..kaw na”.
🙂 Since Alex turned 4, she has been sleeping a lot in her own room. But mommy has to stay beside her, read her a story and wait for her to go to sleep. Some months ago, alex had this “fear”of sleeping. “Mommy”, morning na ba? she asked me. I said, no, the light you see comes from the moon. She answered, ang tagal naman mag-morning. I asked her, why do you want it to be morning na? she said, i dont want to sleep because ayoko mag-dream. Kasi di ako sure if nice or bad ang dream ko”.
🙂 I know that as parents, our children think the world of us. Its a very good feeling especially at times when you are able to answer all of your kid’s questions and she looks at you with awe and your heart just melts with love. But how do you feel when your child asks you a question that no matter how much schooling you have had, you just dont know how to answer it. “Mommy, bakit ako…ako?”
:)For almost a year now, our alex has been telling us that she wants a baby brother AND a sister. Her prayer before meals, bedtime and even circle time in kids church..is always , always to have a baby brother AND a sister. But she has started to grow impatient that’s why i told her that if she just keeps on praying, God will hear her and grant her wish. Then one day while watching “Baby’s Day-out”,one of her favorite movies..she angrily asked why her baby wish is taking too long”. “Mommy bakit ang tagal naman ng baby..siguro youre not praying, ako lang nagpa-pray eh”.
:)More on having a baby…………
:)I have been having a huge appetite lately ( i do wish its for the same reason as you think..but it could also be because of that time of the month). While Alex and i were eating lunch..she commented on my healthy appetite. “Mommy ang laki na ng tyan mo..i think you have a baby na..sige Mommy, eat ka pa, para laki pa tyan mo,para there will be a baby inside na”.
🙂 Still on Having a baby…..
Since Alex’s baby wish is taking too long ( according to her) she has come up with a “logical” explanation why. “Mommy i think nailigaw si Jesus kaya di pa nya nalagay sa tummy mo yung baby. Di nya alam yung world noh? Naligaw sya, di nya kasi alam yung Carmel” ( Carmel is the name of our village:) )
:)Alex has 3 large boxes of VCDs and DVDs. Her collection includes MR Bean movies and cartoons, Disney movies..Sound of Music..Annie..Narnia…..and yes!..our wedding video. I dont know if she’s the only 4 year old who watches the entire 3 disc wedding video of her parents ( and she watches it intently too)..but im really touched by this. Anyway..eversince she has started watching it at 3 years old, she has been asking us accusingly why she is not there. She says everyone she knows is there and why was she left at home. “Mommy ang daya nyo,bakit nyo ko iniwan? I want you to get married again, para maging flower girl ako”. Sweet noh?
More on weddings….
🙂 Now at 4 years old..alex understands why she was not present at her own parents’ wedding. One evening, when her daddy came home, alex was again watching our wedding video. Her daddy asked her. “Baby girl, san ka dyan? Alex answered. “Wala ako ydan eh”. Her Daddy asked again. “Bäkit wala ka dyan?” Alex answered, “Kasi nasa heaven pa ko, I was still an angel”. Her ever makulit na daddy asks her again,”Eh pano ka napunta sa tummy ni mommy?”Alex answered, “Jesus put me there kasi nag-pray kayo eh”
🙂 June was a busy month for me and so Alex stayed at her lolo Buddy and lola Belle’s house in Sanville a lot while i hosted weddings and corporate events. When Alex is there, she’s the boss..well at least that’s what she thinks :). One day she was reprimanded by her Lolo because of too much TV. Her Lolo said her eyes will get ruined if she will watch too much tv. Alex asked her lolo why, which was answered with, because the “glare”of the TV is not good for the eyes. Alex went silent for a minute, went inside her tita evette’s bedroom, and came back with dark sunglasses. She said,”Lolo look, di na ma-ruin eyes ko, i can watch TV na”.
More on TV watching…
Like i said..Alex thinks she’s the boss in sanville and so no one can watch TV in the upstairs living room when she’s there, because she has claimed that space..”her space”already. A couple of months ago, her lolo buddy was confined at home because of a back injury. Since lolo Buddy cant walk much, he stays in the upstairs living room most of the time and watches TV. One day, when alex arrived at Sanville, she saw “her space” already occupied by her lolo. She went up, kissed her lolo, sat down beside him and watched CNN with him. After 15 minutes or so..she told her lolo…”Lolo, rest ka na. Ganda ng bed mo dun sa room.., sleep ka na”.
These are just “some” of Alex’s anecdotes as far as my memory can come up with right now.. and so i am leaving this one open-ended. Im sure i will be returning to this the next time i had this “rare”moment to write my thoughts again.
I had so much fun writing this and im glad i did. In her own little, “logical” way, Alex teaches me a lot about life and how to see and enjoy things just like a child 🙂